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1. I am interested in the swinging lifestyle. How do I convince my spouse to try swinging?
2. If we attend are we required to have sex?
3. Why doesn't The Retreat allow single men to attend by themselves?
4. What is the age group, are they attractive?
5. What do I wear, do you have a dress code?
6. What is soft, open, and closed swinging?
7. Do you allow cell phones or cameras in the club?
8. Is it legal to have a club like yours?
9. I can’t find any location or information, what’s up with that?
10. What forms of payment do accept?

I am interested in the swinging lifestyle. How do I convince my spouse to try swinging?

This is a common dilemma many people find themselves in. The reality of it all there is no standard answer, but a bit of advice is to be open and honest about you new desires and be patient. Focus on the positive, i.e. sexual variety, sexual fulfillment, and the potential of carrying out of one’s fantasies are among the advantages of swinging.
Increased sexual excitement for both partners as a result of your new types of sexual experiences and the discussions of actual sexual experiences. But remember take baby steps.
Swinging is an alternative that is emerging within the traditional structure of marriage in this county. Except for their participation in co-marital sex, most swingers are living in a traditional nuclear family.

If we attend are we required to have sex?

Absolutely not!!! The lifestyle is all about sexual freedom, exploring and fulfilling your fantasies. You may choose to go as far as you are comfortable with. An important thing to remember is to be open with your partner, yourself, the other couples, and single ladies about your desires and preferences. Many people that attend are considered soft swingers, voyeurs, and exhibitionist.

Why doesn't The Retreat allow single men to attend by themselves?

This has been and is a long-standing policy of The Retreat. The majority of our members feel uncomfortable if single unescorted males would be allowed to attend the club. The Retreat was started with the intent to provide a safe, comfortable, relaxed, and erotic environment where swinging couples will enjoy themselves.

What is the age group, are they attractive?

The Retreat welcomes all!! Our member couples range from eighteen to eighty! We have been involved in the lifestyle for long enough to know that looks are not what makes the club fun and exciting. People’s attitude and involvement are the key to a great swinging experience. We do not have a preapproval process, no need to send in a picture or description before you come down.

What do I wear, do you have a dress code?

This is a very good question, this is where you set the mood for the evening. Dress as you feel comfortable sexy or casual. Bottom line on this is wear whatever you are comfortable wearing or not wearing. The theme parties are self explanatory.

What is soft, open, and closed swinging?

We are often asked by those curious about the lifestyle about the difference between open swinging and closed swinging. Here’s a brief idea of what is involved.
Soft swinging: soft swinging involves teasing and foreplay with another couple prior to returning to your own partner for actual intercourse. Soft swingers prefer to keep actual intercourse between themselves and their primary partner rather than sharing it with other people.
Open swinging: is swinging in the same room (possibly in the same bed) with your primary partner and another couple. There may or may not be any sexual contact between the females (depending on their choice). This is the choice of couples that prefer to be together at all times. In open situations, there can be no question of what is said or done, because everything is done together for all parties concerned. This is also the choice of voyeurs and exhibitionists who enjoy watching their partner while experiencing sexual enjoyment themselves. This situation can quite possibly lead to some variations of group sex and techniques that are not available with closed swinging.
Closed swinging: this involves participating in swinging in a separate room away from your primary partner (but still together on the premise). This allows the freedom (or privacy) to discover the person in a deeper way without distractions of another couple in the same room. Closed swinging also allows the freedom to act out various fantasies without the feeling that you are being watched.

Do you allow cell phones or cameras in the club?

No we do not allow cell phones or cameras in the club!!! Privacy and discretion is very important to our members. With that said if we catch anyone with a cell phone or camera in our club the device will be destroyed and the individual will be asked to leave.

Is it legal to have a club like yours?

Absolutely!!! We follow all Colorado state and Jefferson county laws. We also follow all local fire codes. We never have or never will condone any illegal activities of any kind. If anyone in our club is found to be doing any illegal activity they will be asked to leave and will not be allowed back into the Club.

I can’t find any location or information, what’s up with that?

At The Retreat we value privacy and discretion, we want our members to feel comfortable, and know their activities within the lifestyle will be shielded from the general public. The club is located west of the Denver metro area. We do not publish our street address on the internet. If you are looking to stay in a hotel close by then you can find a hotel by using the Denver West area near I-70 and Denver West BLVD.
The annual membership fee’s are $100 per couple and $30 per single lady.
The nightly admission fee’s are:

Friday : $40 per couple and $10 for single ladies.
Saturday: $50 per couple and $10 for single ladies.
Special event and party nights: $60 per couple and $20 for single ladies.